PatWilliamsMotivate May
Newsletter
Hello, everyone! In the
last newsletter I talked about a man I admire greatly, John
Wooden. "Coach" was able to achieve his success by focus
less on the outcome and more on the process. His motto was, "Make
each day your masterpiece," and as long as you tried your best,
you were sure to be successful.
This method worked for Coach as he built the greatest
college sports dynasty ever. Many people remember his seven titles
in a row, 10 titles in 12 years and his 88-game winning streak.
But more than just the stats, people remembered how he did it. Coach
is one of the most beloved and respected success because he is a
man of character.
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When I was GM of the 76ers in Philadelphia, we
had a town full of charismatic coaches: Dick Vermeil with the Eagles,
Billy Cunningham of our 76ers, Rollie Massimino at Villanova and
Dallas Green with the Phillies. One of my favorite quotes from that
time came from Dallas Green as he was talking about building a winning
team. “We need some character guys around here,” he
said. How true. In order to build a winning baseball team, sales
team, church team or any other type of team you are involved with,
as a leader, you need to surround yourself with “character
people.”
I would define “character” as “an ingrained pattern
of qualities, traits and moral attributes that define how a person
will act in times of stress, crisis or temptation.” For example,
a choice man has the character trait of honesty. That means he will
not lie, even if he must pay a price to tell the truth. He will
not steal, even if his need is great. He will not cut ethical corners,
even if he is severely tempted and no one would ever know the difference.
A choice man says “I accept responsibility” instead
of “It wasn’t my fault.” A choice man programs
himself to do the right thing, not the easy thing. A choice man
can be relied upon as moral, ethical, principled and godly, whether
in public or in private, whether his behavior is witnessed by thousands
or he is alone and unobserved.
To have integrity is to be a whole and integrated person—no
masks, no duplicity, no chinks in the armor. The word “integrity”
comes from the Latin integritas, meaning “soundness,”
which comes from integer, meaning “whole, complete.”
If you have integrity as a man of God, it means you are the same
man at home, at work and at church. You don’t pretend to be
a man of honor and truth at church on Sunday mornings and then cut
corners and cut throats out in the business world the rest of the
week.
Integrity is essential to trust. If people know that you are a
man of integrity, they’ll depend on you and look to you as
a leader. You’ll have a good reputation: “He’s
no empty suit. He’s the real deal.”
To be a choice man of humility means maintaining a sober view of
oneself and others. Humility doesn’t mean having a low opinion
of oneself. Those who continually run themselves down are often
the least humble of all. Saying “I’m wretched”
or “I’m worthless” or “I’m nothing”
is just their way of getting attention!
Genuine humility is a strength, not a weakness. A choice man of
humility is confident without being arrogant. He respects himself
without tearing others down. He doesn’t let other people determine
his sense of self-worth. His ego can’t be inflated by flattery,
nor deflated by insults. Mother Teresa once put it this way: “If
you are humble nothing can touch you, neither praise nor disgrace,
because you know who you are.”
As you build and manage your teams, continue to surround yourself
with character people. It will help you to achieve success in easier,
quicker and in a more fulfilling fashion.
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Next month, I will return to detail the essential
principles of leading a successful team. I will continue to look
at the lives and advice from successful athletes, coaches, politicians
and entrepreneurs who have produced great triumphs—such as
General George S. Patton, Jackie Robinson, Oprah Winfrey, Bobby
Bowden and Rich DeVos. I hope to motivate and mentor you to become
the leaders I know you can be. Also, be sure to visit the other
motivational sections of my website: my
motivational quotes, my
recommended reading and my
joke corner.
If you have any recommendations or reactions to
the newsletter, I’d
love to hear them. I want to make this newsletter the most helpful
newsletter on the web. I look forward to hearing from you!
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